Meet people,
not problems
Tudae is built for real connections — and feeling safe is part of the deal. Here's how we protect you, and how to protect yourself.
Before you meet
Take your time
Chat in the app for a while before moving anywhere else. Get to know someone first — nobody genuine will rush you to meet.
Do your research
Look your match up online before meeting. A blue tick means their photos passed our checks — a quick search of your own never hurts.
See a face first
Consider a quick video call — on whatever platform you both trust — before meeting in person. It confirms who they are and how they come across.
If something feels off, it probably is. It's always okay to end a conversation, cancel a date, or leave early — no explanation needed.
Meeting in person
Meet in public places
Busy restaurants, coffee shops or parks in daylight for the first few dates. Skip private or isolated spots until trust is earned over several meetings.
Tell a friend
Let someone you trust know where you're going, who you're meeting and when you'll be back.
Sort your own transport
Plan how you'll get there and home. Don't rely on a lift from someone you've just met — keep the freedom to leave whenever you want.
Stay sober and alert
Go easy on the drinks early on, never leave food or drinks unattended, and be wary of anyone pushing you to drink more than you'd like.
Keep your phone charged
Charge up before you head out and keep emergency contacts handy. Checking in with a friend mid-date is never a bad idea.
Have an exit plan
A friend calling at a set time, or a ready excuse. It's perfectly okay to end a date early — comfort beats politeness.
Protect your information
Keep to yourself
- Your home address, workplace, or details of your daily routine
- Financial information — bank details, card numbers, logins
- Identity documents, or your full name early on
- Social accounts that expose private information
Smart habits
- Use a strong, unique password for your Tudae account
- Be cautious with links sent in messages, even from matches
- Log out on shared or public devices
- Tudae will never ask for your password, money, or bank details
Scam warning signs
- They ask for money — an emergency, travel, a visa
- The relationship moves unusually fast
- They avoid video calls and in-person meetings
- Their stories are inconsistent or overly dramatic
- They ask for gift cards, wire transfers, or crypto
Never send money to someone you haven't met in person.
Reporting & support
Report anyone who
- Asks for money or financial information
- Harasses you or makes you uncomfortable
- Appears to be impersonating someone else
- Shares inappropriate or offensive content
- Behaves aggressively or threatens you
- Pushes products, services, or wants personal details
How to report
- 1Open the person's profile
- 2Scroll to the bottom and tap “Report”
- 3Choose a reason and add any details
Every report is reviewed by our team. Blocking and unmatching are built in, too.
Our safety team is a message away.
What we do on our side
Photo verification
Automated checks plus a human review confirm members are who they say they are — verified profiles carry a blue tick.
Reports, reviewed
Real people review every report and act fast on violations — from warnings to permanent removal.
Control in your hands
Block, unmatch and report from any profile, any time — no questions asked.
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